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#1 Key Trait of Successful Coaches & Healers

KeyThere are a lot of things I had to learn the hard way on my path from Mechanical Engineer to building a successful healing business.  One of them was very surprising, yet it has been one of the secrets to my success and to the success of so many other thriving healers.  This key trait has the potential to accelerate the growth of your business and possibly save you years of unnecessary struggle!

Before I share this #1 key trait with you, I’d like to share with you what a typical coaching & healing business looks like operating without this secret…

Without knowing the secret, most coaches & healers attempt to grow their business by doing what they feel drawn to and taking actions that feel good.  Often they are big into the Law of Attraction (which is important!), so they focus on feeling good and like to stay in that good-feeling state as much as possible.

There’s nothing wrong with focusing on feeling good, but taking good-feeling actions only is detrimental in business and could be the exact thing in the way of your success.


Because actions that feel good and comfortable are in your COMFORT ZONE.  Your comfort zone is basically where everything you’re comfortable with lives.  Everything that you’re used to is in your comfort zone.

SO… if you’re not used to making awesome money as a healer, then taking comfortable actions will not create awesome money as that’s not currently in your comfort zone.

In essence, comfortable actions lead to same old results.  And you want more don’t you?  Your soul is calling you to create more isn’t it? Yes!

When I was taking comfortable actions my sales were stuck at $800 a month.  Ugh!  Comfort is the old way!

Okay, so on to the #1 key trait.

Recently I was blown away by a once in a lifetime opportunity that landed in my lap.  My work is literally going to be exposed to hundreds of thousands of people, it will be shared with the communities of many multi-million dollar business owners.  This is a dream come true.  Yet it wasn’t just a dream that magically manifested.  It took me demonstrating this #1 key trait multiple times to even allow for it to appear.

Okay so the #1 key trait of all successful coaches & healers is this:


They choose courage over comfort. What does this mean?  Comfortable actions get you more of the same results.  And if you want to make more money than you are now, if you want to reach more people, you’ll have to leave your comfort zone.  This means, you want to be OKAY with being uncomfortable!

It is the willingness to be uncomfortable, to mess up, to make mistakes, to stumble, to fall, to fail and to not be perfect that will create way more success, way faster.  And that takes courage.

The path to your wildly amazing success is around you right now.  If you’re willing to be uncomfortable to reach way more people, way faster, let the Universe know!  Let the Universe know you’re willing to take NEW actions, to be courageous instead of comfortable.  Believe me, you will have opportunities come to you.  And they may terrify you.  Awesome!  Say yes.  Step up.  Your people are waiting!

3 Steps To Activate Rapid Business Growth With Help!

One of the key ways to grow your business quickly is to simply get help.  Many entrepreneurs are resistant to help as they feel they need to figure it all out themselves.

Getting help to grow your business accelerates your path to more money and more impact in the world so if you’re in the “I should figure it out myself” mode right now, maybe it’s time to reconsider this old thinking.

I used to think I was supposed to figure it out myself and if I couldn’t it said something was wrong with me.  I thought I would prove something if I succeeded on my own.  Yet my sales at that time stayed WAY too low.  The day I finally admitted that I didn’t actually know how to make great money in my business was one of the most pivotal days in my business.

It allowed me to finally ask for help and with that came rapid business growth.

I believe with all of my heart that the Universe wants you to succeed. Even MORE than you do.  Because your business isn’t just about you.  It’s about the people that you’re meant to impact.  It’s about the amazing transformation that happens in their lives.

The Universe not only wants you to succeed but it doesn’t want you to do it alone. Alone is no fun.  It’s tiring and it can take endless years or might not even happen.  There is amazing support out there right now.

Your way to rapid business growth is likely around you right now, yet you won’t receive this help if you’re not willing to get help.

There are 2 important keys to investing in yourself and your business growth:

#1 Choose the RIGHT support. I’ll talk more about this in a moment.

#2 USE what you learn!  This one may sound obvious but it’s not enough to learn how to grow your business, you must also implement what you learn!  You’d be amazed at how many people don’t use what they learn and stay stuck!  The key here is to implement what you learn so it’s an investment instead of an expense.

Now I will warn you, there are SO many people out there who can help you and they’re not all right for you.

It’s important to attract the RIGHT support for YOU to take you where you want to go.  I’ve managed to do that over and over and I’d love to share with you the 3 steps I use to do this:

1. Specify the Assistance You’re Ready For

You are the owner of your business.  You are the boss, you are responsible for your business at the end of the day.  From an empowered place, take a look at what you feel you need to learn in order to grow.

At one point I was overwhelmed with so many 1:1 clients and I knew continuing to grow my business as it was would lead to burnout.  So I clearly specified that I wanted to learn how to grow my business in a more leveraged way.

Some people don’t the actual “how to” of attracting clients.  In this case it’s important to specify learning how to attract paying clients.

Or, some just know the next level of sales they’d like to grow to and they have no idea what they need to learn.

Take a moment right now to reflect on what type of assistance right now.  The easiest way to do that is to fill in the blank here:

I don’t know how to ________________________.

For example, “I don’t know how to make more money in my business” “take my business to $_____ yearly sales” “I don’t know how to create a leveraged business” or “I don’t know how to attract paying clients”. Whatever it is for you.

2. Express Your Intention

When you are clear, your intention is SO powerful. I remember the most powerful intention I ever set.

I was a year into my first Engineering job and I was BORED.  I knew I was meant to do something else.  I felt empty inside.

One day I felt a clarity come over me.  I realized, even though I didn’t know how in the heck I’d do what I loved for work or even what that was, I decided it was time.  With a strong sense of clarity and intention, I wrote these words in my journal:

“I know that I’m meant to be more and do more, I’m ready, show me the way!”

The Universe was obviously listening.  Within a few months I was laid off of my Engineering job and I began my path as an entrepreneur.  I would not be writing these words to you right now had I not wrote out that clear intention.

Your intention opens up worlds of support that you can’t see yet. Now that you’re clear, it’s time to let the Universe know that you’re ready for support.

Go ahead and write out (and ideally say out loud) the following:

“I accept that I don’t know how to ________________ and I am now ready and willing to receive the exact help I need, show me the way!”

3. Use Your Intuition

Once you activate the support all around you by stating your intention, it will show up.  And maybe other support that’s not for you will also show up. It’s up to you to discern what is the right support for you.

It’s important to see if the support that shows up feels right and fits what you need.  For me it’s important to not just use logic but to use intuition.  Sometimes intuition points out a way that feels right even if it seems like a scary thing to do.

Fear is not intuition, in fact, it’s often a good sign that you’re headed in the right direction.

The mentor I hired to help me leverage my business was a big investment and it was terrifying because of the situation I was in financially at the time.  Yet my intuition kept saying yes so I chose to trust it.  It was one of the best decisions I ever made, my sales doubled that next year.

If you’re confident in your intuition, great!  You’ll know what help is best for you and you’re good to go.

If you’re not sure how to use your intuition confidently and quickly when it’s time to make a decision, I highly recommend the “Choice Illumination Process”.

I created this program because I had made so many decisions using my intuition that led me to a more prosperous and profitable business and I knew others could benefit from the process I use.

Right now it’s only $47, and is going up to $97 soon as this skill is so valuable!

Get your copy here before it goes up:  Choice Illumination Process

Would love to hear your comments below!

3 Simple Steps To Align Energetically For Success!

Many people want to jump right to the success right away.  To making lots of money and helping lots of people.  The truth is, success is created day by day.

And the key to creating success is to pay attention to the most important element in your business: Your Energy.  Your energy is most important.  Everything else is secondary.

Yes it is vitally important to take action, to know how to market your gifts effectively.  I’m not saying all you need is the right energy, that’s not true.  But if your energy is out of alignment, it has a MAJOR impact on your business and your ability to succeed.

What do I mean by “out of alignment”?

Out of alignment means that you don’t feel good.  Perhaps you feel tense, stressed, worried about money, doubt in yourself or fear for example.  This is when your energy is out of alignment.

If your energy is out of alignment, everything else will be out of alignment as well…

The actions you take will not feel good.  That means everything you DO will have an underlying energy of the out of alignment energy – doubt, fear, stress, whatever that may be.

And why does that matter? 

If your energy is out of alignment, you don’t feel good, that energy seeps into everything that you do. 

Let’s say you feel fear about money, you’re scared you won’t make enough money this month and you’re feeling it.  And let’s say with that “out of alignment” energy, you write an email to your potential clients.

That energy is not only in you, it’s shaping your mental state and your words.  With that energy seeping into this email to your potential clients, what do you think happens?

They feel it!  Maybe it’s just at a subtle level.  So subtle that maybe they don’t even open the email.  Or they read it and are on some level absorbing that energy themselves.


Not to mention because you were in a fear state when you wrote that email, you likely were not accessing the words and ideas that were abundant, generous and magnetic.  Likely it was the opposite.

And what is “in alignment” energy?

Energy in alignment with the truth of your being.  And the truth of your being is total abundance, love, generosity, peace, flow, ease, grace, and more.  It is full, overflowing.

The more time you spend in alignment, the more you can access abundant ideas, opportunities, more clients, the exact support you need to get to your next level of sales.

The more time you spend in alignment, the easier it will be to grow your business, reach more people and make more money.

I’d love to share with you one of my favourite ways to get into alignment each day.  Grab your favourite journal, or even just a piece of paper and a pen and get started now!

3 Simple Steps To Align For Success!

This process uses what I call the “3 Magical Words” which are:

“I See Myself…”

I got these 3 Magical Words from Esther Hicks and I am forever grateful they came into my life.  By starting the first line with “I see myself…” you automatically engage your vision and imagination.

These 3 Magical Words place you into the future you’d like to create.  Rather than having your future be created by default, you’re picking up the paintbrush, pulling out the colours and are ready to paint a new picture of YOUR choosing.

1. How You Want to FEEL “I see myself feeling ________ as I go about my day”

Start out with how you want to feel.  You start by CHOOSING how you would like to feel on a given day.  Write as much as you want about how you’d like to feel that day.

For example: “I see myself feeling deeply connected to Spirit, to the love within me as I go about my day.  I see myself feeling a deep sense of joy and inspiration.”

Tip: If you wake up feeling very low and not feeling great at all, don’t go for “excited” or “amazing” as feelings.  Perhaps on a day like that, feeling “peaceful” would be perfect for you.

2. Add In What You’d Like to Manifest “I see myself feeling ___________ as I ___________”

Now you can fill in some of the details you’d like to see manifest.  I like to start out with what I’d like to feel first and fill in the rest.

Some examples:

“I see myself feeling totally connected and inspired as I write the article for my newsletter.”

“I see myself feeling confident and connected to my passion as I speak with my potential client Mary.  I see my words coming easily and naturally, I see her feeling a deep connection to me and what I share.”

“I see myself feeling deeply connected, in tune, in the flow.  I see myself attracting incredible opportunities to get my work out to more people.  I see myself being magnetic to all those I am meant to work with.  I see them synchronistically ”being guided to me with ease and grace.

3.  Finish Up With How You Want to Feel At The End Of The Day “I see myself feeling _________ at the end of the day”

The final place to go is to how you would like to feel at the end of your day.  This is KEY!  And one of the most powerful elements of this process.

This is my favourite part, as I love when I catch myself feeling exactly what I wanted to feel as my day wraps up or in the evening.  It’s such an awesome confirmation that I AM creating my reality.  I chose to be in alignment and it happened.

Here are some of my favourites:

“I see myself feeling a sense of accomplishment as I finish up my day.  I see myself feeling proud of myself and of what I accomplished.”

Here’s one I used when I was still working at my Engineering job part-time as I was building my business.  I used this when I woke up knowing I’d be on a huge downward spiral if I didn’t do something to stop it.  Don’t underestimate it’s power, this line alone was likely responsible for me leaving that job way faster:

“I see myself leaving the office at the end of the day feeling peaceful.”

Spend a few minutes each day, or more if you choose, aligning yourself for success.  It can create a major shortcut to success for you!

When manifesting is not enough…

Sometimes manifesting is not enough.  And there is a very specific reason why.  Perhaps there is something deeper in the way.  If there is something deeper sabotaging your results, it makes creating success WAY harder than it needs to be.

Join me on Thursday August 30th for a one-time FREE teleseminar where I will help you find out if something deeper IS in the way:

“Revealed: 3 Secret Energies That Sabotage Sales & Keep Holistic Practitioners Struggling For WAY too long At 4 or 5-Figures!”

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