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The Secret Link Between Love And Money

Could your love life be impacting your sales?  If you’re in an unsupportive relationship or have been in the past and are single now, it may be impacting you more than you realize.

I remember back when I started my business that it was not exactly the ideal time in a logical sense.  I had just moved into a brand new house that I had built and I had just been laid off of my Engineering job.

To those around me, I must have seemed crazy, but what I knew was that I was being guided, that it WAS time I start my business.  There were signs and even when I just looked at the Engineering job postings, everything in me said NO!!!

That first year was hard.  Trying so much to build my business but by the end of that year I had to admit that I needed another source of income and sadly returned to my Engineering career.

I felt like a failure.  I knew so much about the Law of Attraction and manifesting, why couldn’t I succeed?

My business grew over the next couple of years but still was not anywhere near able to support me financially.  I was SO frustrated!  What was I doing wrong?!

Can you relate?

I was trying SO hard, doing all I could, not realizing that my not-so-supportive relationship was secretly holding back major sales growth in my business.

Now I do not blame anyone for anything, my life is my creation as is yours.  But what I know now is this:

Your relationship is a mirror of you.

And if you do not feel supported in your relationship, it says something very important about YOU.  It says that you are on your own.  You are independent, maybe even a fighter.  And most importantly, it says that you CAN’T or DON’T allow support.

So what? Isn’t it good to be so independent?  A make-it-happen kind of woman?

In a word, no.  It is not a good thing for one VERY important reason that you need to get if you are ever going to take your business to the place where it supports you financially.

You can’t create a successful business alone.  And you’re not meant to.

You will need to learn from those ahead of you on the path.  And even if you could learn it all on your own, it would not be possible for you to find the exact right information because you are closed off to the most important thing on this path.

The support of the Universe.

If you are going at it alone, if you are fighting to build your business, your energy says one thing:  I don’t need support.

And that is just not true.

Maybe that’s hard to hear but I know without a doubt that I did not create my success alone.  I believed when there was no evidence saying I should.  I trusted in the Universe to guide the way.  I trusted that there was a way.

BUT my business did not change until the dynamics in my relationship changed.  That relationship was not capable of being supportive, it was not for my highest good and I can see that looking back that I had to leave it to get here.  And it wasn’t until I let go of what was unsupportive that I was finally able to allow the support of my business growing.

Immediately, I attracted an incredible program and mentor, the exact support I needed to create a MAJOR increase in my sales, within just a few months.  And to end up with a 322% increase in sales over the previous year.

This whole go at it alone thing is so common among Holistic Practitioners, particularly women and it has got to go.

The Universe has SO much love for you.  It not only WANTS you to succeed but has the way for you to do that.  If you let yourself be supported.

Open the door right now.  Even if you don’t know how to allow support, I challenge you to close your eyes after you read this and to go within and if you feel ready declare to yourself and the Universe:  I am willing to open to support, show me the way.

July 26, 2011   No Comments

Are You Repelling Money?

Many Holistic Practitioners struggle with issues around money.  On the one hand, you know you want more but can you also notice that there’s a part of you that feels unsure about being successful financially? I’d love to help open your mind to why allowing money in is so important and a simple exercise to help you open the door to more.

One thing I hear often from new clients is something along the lines of I’m not doing it for the money or money isn’t that important to me.  Yet, I hear they are struggling financially.

Let me share one important concept with you that I want you to take with you forever.  As a Holistic Practitioner, you are a healer of some kind, an agent of transformation.  This automatically means that, in your business, two things are linked:

Income and Impact

So why is this so important?

If you say the money doesn’t matter you’re automatically saying the impact I’m here to make in peoples lives, the impact I’m here to make on the planet doesn’t matter.

You’re meant to help change lives for the better!  You’re meant to help heal hearts, free expression, gain confidence or whatever your purpose involves.

Let’s say your purpose is to help heal the hearts of broken-hearted single women who’ve lost their hope around finding love.  The more money you make, the more hearts are healed.  The more hope around love there is on the planet, the less pain there is in the lives of those you’re meant to work with.

The higher your income, the greater your impact, period.

It’s actually your responsibility to get yourself okay with making great money.  If you don’t, there will be so many people out there who will miss out on the gift you have for them, who will stay in a pain you could help them get out of.

It’s time to step up!

Let’s start to shift your energy around money right now.  Grab a pen and a piece of paper if you can for this exercise.

There is a simple new way of looking at money I encourage you to embrace to see just how welcoming you are of money in your life:

Money is your friend

Are you repelling money?  If you begin to open to the idea that money is a friend, you can really find out if you’re attracting or repelling money!  Answer the following questions to find out:

  1. If money was your friend, judging by how you treat this friend, would your friend want to hang around you?
  2. Do you love money? Do you spend time and attention on it?  Do you show it you care?
  3. Do you fear it?  Ignore it?  Do you say money doesn’t matter?
  4. What does how you approach this friend show you about how much of it is in your life?
  5. What is one action you can take to show this friend of yours that it’s valuable and important to you and that it matters?

One idea is to spend time each week with money.  Another could be to take a look at what you’re doing to track the money coming in.

Often in the beginning, Holistic Practitioners don’t track their money, they think it’s not much they’re making so they don’t track it.  What kind of message is this sending?!

Embrace the behaviors now that you will use when you have lots of money or you will never have lots of money!

The great thing about tracking money, ESPECIALLY when you haven’t made much, is that when you start making more, you’ll have plenty to celebrate!

Remember your work here is to transform lives, and the more money you make, the bigger the difference you’re making in the world!  Begin today to bring love and attention to money.  It’s time to get in alignment with your higher purpose of making great money and a big impact.  It’s time to shine!

July 20, 2011   4 Comments

Have You Turned Over Your Financial Power to Others?

During difficult financial times it is easy to get caught up in feelings of powerlessness.  During these times it is also easy to begin seeing your clients or something external as the source of your income in your business.  But this view on the financial power being outside of you is the last thing you want and actually holds you in financial lack and prevents abundance from coming into your business.

So what happens when you see your clients, your partner, your savings, your retirement or some other external source as your financial source?

You actually repel money and clients away from you in your business.  When you see your power as outside of yourself you do not own the incredible power you do have to create exactly what you want.

Seeing your clients, partner or anything else external as your source also leaves you feeling needy and dependent on others.  And your potential clients can feel it.  And while support is a great thing, signing on clients is a great thing, handing over your financial power is not.

At one time I saw my partner as my financial source and security.  I didn’t realize it at the time but this was actually preventing me from being able to be my own financial source and had prevented my business from taking off.  As soon as I had left that relationship I in essence stepped into my power and owned my role as the creator of my financial reality.  Within 5 months I had more than tripled my business.

Why is that?

Because seeing something outside of yourself as the source of your abundance means you are not in your power in your business.  And it is simply not the truth.  More importantly:

If you are going to create a successful business doing what you love then you must be in your power and own your power as the creator of your financial reality.  There is no other way.

So let’s get you started in reclaiming your power over your financial reality with 3 shifts in perspective:

1.  The Universe is your source, YOU are your source, your connection to the Universe is your source

When you look at potential clients as your source of income it immediately brings you into the energy of attachment.  And with attachment comes a needy feeling that they can pick up on (yuck!).  It also narrows your focus to a specific person and a specific outcome, which in essence is a restriction of your energy. And restriction of your energy is the last thing you want!

This restriction can manifest in so many ways including loss of connection to your passion and the reason why you are doing this work in the first place, disconnection from your higher self as you are so focused on the external and a restriction of income.

In order to open up this restriction you need to acknowledge the true source of your abundance, which is You, the Universe, God or whatever you choose to call this higher power.  You are the creator of your reality whether you do this unconsciously or intentionally.  You know this, but it is time to reaffirm it if you are feeling as though something external is your source.

The money and clients you attract are both created from within you. Take back your creative power by reaffirming this.  Remember that you can work at the level of cause, your clients and the income you have are the effect of YOU.  The Universe brings to you what you are ready for, what you believe in and what you take action to help create.

2.  I choose to let go of my powerlessness

Seeing others as the source of your abundance shows on some level your belief in your powerlessness. As much as I’m sure you hate the thought of being a victim, allowing yourself to feel powerless sets you up to be a victim.

As a spiritually conscious person there are many deeply buried energetic blocks that are likely in the way of you fully stepping into your power.  And because being in your power is so important healing these deeper issues and being able to feel safe stepping into your power is one of the steps in the Fearless Faith System.

But you can start now with a simple choice.  Choose right now in this moment to let go of the idea that you are powerless and ask to be guided to how you can step into your power, how you can be the financial power in your business.

3.  Bring your focus to within

Seeing an external thing as your financial source is in essence looking outside of yourself for what you need.  On a deeper level you know it is impossible to get something from outside of you that you do not already match inside.

If you find you are looking outside yourself, stop and begin to look within.  Notice how you feel, acknowledge how you feel and choose to do what you can to feel better. Remind yourself that you create based on what is going on inside of you and for a moment choose to bring your focus to what you really want.  Envision what you would love to create and bring in the feelings of having what you want here now.

It all comes down to YOU and though this thought can be scary might as well just face that fear right away rather than have it under the surface keeping you powerless.  You CAN create abundance in your business.  It is part of the higher purpose of your business.  Remember that, own that and act as though it were true and you will be surprised what can open up in your reality.

November 17, 2010   No Comments

The #1 Way Your Relationship Dynamics Prevent Your Major Business Growth

I remember back when I started my business that it was not exactly the ideal time in a logical sense.  I had just moved into a brand new house that I had built and I had just been laid off of my Engineering job.

To those around me I must have seemed crazy, but what I knew was that I was being guided, that it WAS time I start my business.  There were signs and even when I just looked at the Engineering job postings everything in me said NO!!!

That first year was hard.  Trying so much to build my business but by the end of that year I had to admit that I needed another source of income and sadly returned to my Engineering career.

I felt like a failure.  I knew so much about the Law of Attraction and manifesting, why couldn’t I succeed?

My business grew over the next couple of years but still was not anywhere near able to support me financially.  I was SO frustrated!  What was I doing wrong?!

Can you relate?

I was trying SO hard, doing all I could, not realizing that my not-so-supportive relationship was secretly holding back major sales growth in my business.

Now I do not blame anyone for anything, my life is my creation as is yours.  But what I know now is this:

Your relationship is a mirror of you.

And if you do not feel supported in your relationship, it says something very important about YOU.  It says that you are on your own.  You are independent, maybe even a fighter.  And most importantly, it says that you CAN’T or DON’T allow support.

So what? Isn’t it good to be so independent?  A make it happen kind of woman?

In a word, no.  It is not a good thing for one VERY important reason that you need to get if you are ever going to take your business to the place where it supports you financially…

You can’t create a successful business alone.  And you’re not meant to.

You will need to learn from those ahead of you on the path.  And even if you could learn it all on your own, it would not be possible for you to find the exact right information because you are closed off to the most important thing on this path.

The support of the Universe.

If you are going at it alone, if you are fighting to build your business your energy says one thing:  I don’t need support.

And that is just not true.

Maybe that’s hard to hear but I know without a doubt that I did not create my success alone.  I believed when there was no evidence saying I should.  I trusted in the Universe to guide the way.  I trusted that there was a way.

BUT my business did not change until the dynamics in my relationship changed.  That relationship was not capable of being supportive, it was not for my highest good and I can see that looking back that I had to leave it to get here.  And it wasn’t until I let go of what was unsupportive that I was finally able to allow the support of my business growing.

Immediately I attracted an incredible program and mentor, the exact support I needed to create a MAJOR increase in my sales, within just a few months.  And to end up with a 322% increase in sales over the previous year.

This whole go it alone thing is so common among spiritually conscious entrepreneurs, particularly women and it has got to go.

The Universe has SO much love for you.  It not only WANTS you to succeed but has the way for you to do that. 

And it is WAY too difficult for you to be in a relationship that is unsupportive and succeed.  It is too present in your life and energy.  There are a number of reasons why and you can begin today to turn it around.

Be sure to join me for the FREE 3-Part Teleseries where I will be helping you do exactly that:

5 Signs Your Relationship Dynamics May Be Holding Back Your Sales (and How to Turn it Around So Your Business Can Finally Grow As It’s Meant to!)

 Sign up here:

http://tinyurl.com/5signsteleseries

October 7, 2010   4 Comments

The Direct Link Between Your Relationship and Your Business

For years I had been coaching clients to create incredible shifts in their lives from within.  To do this, we use all that comes up in their lives around them to show what is going on within them.

I always used to say that the Universe uses those around you and especially your love relationship to show you what issues you need to work on next.  The result was not only personal growth but the relationships seemed to improve dramatically too.

Now I can see just why the Universe uses your relationships to show you your issues and more recently I have seen just how profound and powerful the connection is between your relationships and your business.

What is also incredible is that improving your relationships has a direct and positive impact on your business, particularly on your sales.

The unhealthy dynamics I was experiencing in my relationships were DIRECTLY reflected in my sales.

Are your sales low or non-existent?  Do you have high highs followed by low lows, unable to create any kind of lasting consistency?

If so, you want to look to your relationship first.  How we are in our relationships shows you how much you are in your power, how much you value yourself and your happiness and so much more.

If your sales are unstable with lots of highs and lows, it’s time to look for the link in your relationship.  Are you able to keep your emotions stable and high in your relationship or do you frequently get knocked down emotionally?

You are not one person in your business and an entirely different person in your relationship.  The issues you have in one your relationship reflect the issues you have within YOU.  And those issues may not come out as directly in your business but I can tell you they have a direct impact.

It’s time to explore what your relationship dynamics first of all say about you and to begin to heal so your relationships can improve AND your business can succeed as it is meant to.

Join me for a free 3-Part Teleseries:

5 Signs Your Relationship May Be Holding You Back in Your Business (and How to Turn it Around So Your Business Can Finally Grow As It’s Meant to!)

Your life really is meant to be amazing and it’s time to face what needs to be faced, to heal what needs to be healed to create that amazing life.

Sign up for this exciting teleseries here:
http://tinyurl.com/5signsteleseries

September 29, 2010   No Comments