I remember back when I started my business that it was not exactly the ideal time in a logical sense. I had just moved into a brand new house that I had built and I had just been laid off of my Engineering job.
To those around me, I must have seemed crazy, but what I knew was that I was being guided, that it WAS time I start my business. There were signs and even when I just looked at the Engineering job postings, everything in me said NO!!!
That first year was hard. Trying so much to build my business but by the end of that year I had to admit that I needed another source of income and sadly returned to my Engineering career.
I felt like a failure. I knew so much about the Law of Attraction and manifesting, why couldn’t I succeed?
My business grew over the next couple of years but still was not anywhere near able to support me financially. I was SO frustrated! What was I doing wrong?!
Can you relate?
I was trying SO hard, doing all I could, not realizing that my not-so-supportive relationship was secretly holding back major sales growth in my business.
Now I do not blame anyone for anything, my life is my creation as is yours. But what I know now is this:
Your relationship is a mirror of you.
And if you do not feel supported in your relationship, it says something very important about YOU. It says that you are on your own. You are independent, maybe even a fighter. And most importantly, it says that you CAN’T or DON’T allow support.
So what? Isn’t it good to be so independent? A make-it-happen kind of woman?
In a word, no. It is not a good thing for one VERY important reason that you need to get if you are ever going to take your business to the place where it supports you financially.
You can’t create a successful business alone. And you’re not meant to.
You will need to learn from those ahead of you on the path. And even if you could learn it all on your own, it would not be possible for you to find the exact right information because you are closed off to the most important thing on this path.
The support of the Universe.
If you are going at it alone, if you are fighting to build your business, your energy says one thing: I don’t need support.
And that is just not true.
Maybe that’s hard to hear but I know without a doubt that I did not create my success alone. I believed when there was no evidence saying I should. I trusted in the Universe to guide the way. I trusted that there was a way.
BUT my business did not change until the dynamics in my relationship changed. That relationship was not capable of being supportive, it was not for my highest good and I can see that looking back that I had to leave it to get here. And it wasn’t until I let go of what was unsupportive that I was finally able to allow the support of my business growing.
Immediately, I attracted an incredible program and mentor, the exact support I needed to create a MAJOR increase in my sales, within just a few months. And to end up with a 322% increase in sales over the previous year.
This whole go at it alone thing is so common among Holistic Practitioners, particularly women and it has got to go.
The Universe has SO much love for you. It not only WANTS you to succeed but has the way for you to do that. If you let yourself be supported.
Open the door right now. Even if you don’t know how to allow support, I challenge you to close your eyes after you read this and to go within and if you feel ready declare to yourself and the Universe: I am willing to open to support, show me the way.