Category — Business Energy Blocks
I’ve been seeing more and more lately that a MAJOR issue facing Holistic Practitioners in their business is doubt. Do you face doubt often? Doubt in yourself, in your ability to make a difference in your client’s lives? In your worth? It’s time to take a deeper look at what doubt is costing you and to learn how to quickly shift out of doubt.
I’ve seen it so many times, no matter what causes the doubt, the effect of doubt is the same. When a Holistic Practitioner faces doubt, doubt in themselves, their worth, their ability to help their clients, doubt in their purpose and if they should even be doing this work something happens.
They stop taking action. They stop and question EVERYTHING! Or they stop and just do nothing. Either way, their foot is on the brakes of their business.
What happens next?
Their energy says STOP, so what do you think begins to happen in their business?
New clients rushing in? Nope.
New opportunities to get their work out? Nope.
Taking whatever action is needed to attract more clients? Nope.
If your energy says STOP, everything begins to come to a halt. Not only that but the clients you do have, the clients you are a light in the dark for feel it too. The light is out or very dim. The reason they signed on with you in the first place, the energy space they needed you to hold for them is gone. They feel it, you feel it and this only gets worse.
It’s 2012. Now is the time to step up to your purpose in faith. Now more than ever what you have is needed in the world. You are a lighthouse, a light in the dark for your clients.
And they need your light ON. They need you to keep your foot on the gas in your business, to keep moving forward so your light stays on for them.
There are many factors that contribute to doubt continuing to arise in your business. Too many to get into here, but I’d like to share with you a very powerful and simple 5 step process to shift out of doubt within minutes.
I’ve used this myself and every time I shift out of doubt and into belief. Getting out of doubt is not a one time thing. It’s like a bad habit that must be broken. So I recommend printing this out and having it beside your desk so you can keep your foot on the gas in your business and keep the light shining for those you’re meant to shine it for.
Here we go!
Step 1: Get Your Thoughts and Feelings OUT
Step 1 is all about getting all of those circling thoughts and feelings out of your mind and onto the page. In this step you write for as long as you like, until you feel you’ve gotten most of the thoughts and feelings out around whatâ€™s going on for you.
I know you’ve probably heard you’re not supposed to focus on the negative, that’s not what you’re doing here. These thoughts and feelings are already going on WITHIN you, might as well get them out!
Step 2: Ask yourself, is my focus on me or those I’m meant to help?
If you look at what you wrote in step 1, you’ll likely see that your focus is all on YOU. This is a major problem because it AMPLIFIES any doubt you are experiencing. Recognize that you are feeding the doubt by focusing on yourself and proceed to step 3.
Step 3: What pain, problems or challenges are your clients facing?
Here you begin to shift the focus off of you and onto the people you’re meant to help. Write all about what your clients or potential clients are facing right now in their lives. The problems you can help them with. Write as much as you can, really put yourself in your clients’ shoes and connect with what they are experiencing that you could help them out of.
Step 3 is where you take your foot off of the brake energetically.
Step 4: Why are YOU the one to help them?
Write all you can think of about why YOU are the person to help your clients or potential clients. What life experience do you have that relates to what they’re going through? Have you been where they are and gotten out of it? What do you know that could help them? What training and experience do you have that can help them? Why are YOU the one to help them?
Spend as much time as you can here, at step 4, energetically you are putting your foot on the gas. Your confidence and faith goes up with this important step, which is exactly what you need to get out of doubt and brakes on and back into faith and foot on the gas.
Step 5: Affirm “I Choose To Trust”
After your foot has been placed back on the gas where it belongs, it helps to remind yourself that God, the Universe is backing you. Remind yourself that you’ve been drawn to create this business for a reason, that you ARE meant to be doing this work, that your path is guided.
I love the affirmation “I choose to trust” because many times trust is a choice. You can’t wait until you trust 100% to be successful in business. Being in business is an act of faith in itself.
Now that you’re back into the energy of faith, what action can you take right now?
Get going on it! Keep your light shining! And come back to the 5 steps any time you need to, any time you find yourself in doubt.
January 25, 2012 16 Comments
Do you sometimes get discouraged by the lack of results you see in your business? Knowing on some level that you are meant to do this work, you felt called to start your business, yet where the heck are the results?
Here is a special message for you that I was guided to share with you:
Dear one you are shaking and nervous about your work, about your ability to deliver it and to live a great life that involves your business being your means of income. The results of your efforts may seem small, perhaps you face disappointment after disappointment.
What is really happening here?
Did you ever stop to think that you were perhaps not doing something wrong, that everything that is happening is happening to both strengthen a key energy within you of faith and to also show you the way to this life you envision?
You often face feelings of doubt. When you have doubt in yourself, your abilities, your worth, your message, your program you are sending out a conflicting message to the Universe. You say you are ready, you take actions, but your energy says otherwise.
With this conflict in your energy, you can not create powerful results.
It is most important to resolve this doubt. For until you do, you will have the brakes on. With doubt, you will never be able to create the most results, they will always be minimized and reduced because your energy is restricted. It doesn’t match the success you envision.
You may fear stepping fully into belief because what would happen if you believed and were then disappointed? What if you were to look like a failure? So rather than face this possibility, you back down and sink into doubt.
Doubt is safer. With doubt you are allowing yourself to choose to be small.
What might shift in your business if you stopped doubting yourself? If you chose to TRUST and act as though success were guaranteed?
I’ll tell you what would happen, you would be sending a powerful message to the Universe that you are no longer holding back and letting your small self run the show. You would begin to attract at an entirely new level, and you would attract THE WAY to actually create the results you envision if you were able to hold onto trust instead of doubt.
Would the results you create change immediately? Maybe not.
You don’t know what you don’t know and you may need to learn new skills for example to help you become the person who can create those results. Energy alone does not create your reality because you live in a physical world.
But energy is the foundation, if you’re stuck in doubt, no action can help you. If you’re choosing to trust and take action on that trust, then the way begins to be activated.
The way may involve people, programs, ideas, mentors, books coming your way to help you get the skills and knowledge you need to translate your vision of what success looks like for you into physical reality.
Let go of attachment to results, there is no failure anyway, just learning. And you will learn WAY more if you choose to trust and step up. And you won’t learn much if you don’t step up, if you choose to let doubt rule you and keep you small.
The world needs your gifts. The world needs your confidence, your belief, your energy. The world needs your example of faith in action and of what is truly possible when you step up bravely for what is in your heart.
We leave you with this:
Most of the world hides out, most of the world does not take charge of their destiny. It may feel uncomfortable for you to do it a new way. But that discomfort is the very thing that shows you that you’re on track.
That you’re riding the wave toward your new future. Comfort is a signal you are choosing to stay small. Be willing to be uncomfortable, be willing to be brave, to step up, to shine your light to the world in the way only you can.
You won’t see just how much incredible help and support there is, just for you, to help you get there until you do.
What have you been avoiding? What have you been afraid to try in case you might fail? Can you allow yourself to be willing to step up, to show up and take the new steps that you have avoided in the past? Can you be willing to get on the bike for the first time, to fall once or twice so you can finally learn? So you can create a new reality for yourself?
Back to Fia-Lynn:
Be willing to be brave, be willing to step up. I’ve done this countless times in my business only to see absolutely incredible things happening. My sales tripling or doubling, the way showing up for me just as I chose to step up.
The funny thing is, you can’t see it until you step up. The Universe won’t show you the way until you say yes and take the actions that show you believe you will succeed.
Take a moment right now to identify something you’ve been avoiding, an action, big or small that you could take right now to show the Universe you’re ready to step up, you’re ready to trust. And take it! Be willing to be uncomfortable and you’ll grow your business faster than you can imagine.
It’s your time to shine. Show that you believe it.
This is the foundation of Fearless Faith, the energy that has allowed me to feel 100% supported every step of the way on my journey. Whether I was freaked out or not, knowing that I am being guided to grow my business quickly.
There are many more keys to growing your business, I’ve shared a powerful one here, and I’m excited to be sharing much more, including how to immediately shift out of doubt so you can stay in the energy of trust and faith.
Join me live in a city near you for the Grow Your Holistic Business Faster! Workshop, it’s free when you pre-register here:
August 30, 2011 1 Comment
Does this sound familiar to you?
You know there are deeper issues at play, every time you have a big light bulb moment you think THIS is the reason I have been stuck! I’ve figured it out once and for all.
And then what happens?
You feel better for a day or so then reality sinks in and it hasn’t changed at all. Well maybe you feel better but you’re not making any more money, you have no more clients than you did the week before.
So what happened here?
I see this all of the time. Many of my clients already know how to heal using different modalities. They feel like they SHOULD be able to know how to heal themselves and that they should be able to figure out what’s keeping them stuck and just heal it.
I’ve found more often than not that you’re rarely ever stuck for the reason you think you are. And in a lot of cases the healing you are doing isn’t getting to the deepest issue that’s causing your REALITY to be stuck.
That’s why you can come up against issue after issue, resolving each one as you go and STILL be stuck in your business.
Here are 3 tips to help you get to the root of WHAT is really holding you back in your business:
Tip #1: It’s not just a belief in your way
There are many wonderful tools and modalities that will help you heal beliefs. These tools are powerful and can be life-changing and I use them myself when I KNOW it’s just a belief in the way. But if you are REALLY stuck in your business, there is far more to it. That’s why you can heal belief after belief and not have the reality change. Why?
The bigger and deeply rooted ENERGY dynamic within you hasn’t changed. And beliefs are just a small part of that energy dynamic.
If you have changed the reality in your business (the amount of money coming in) just from changing beliefs alone then that’s great, no need to read on! But if you feel you’ve tried to heal your beliefs endlessly and you’re STILL stuck then the issue is more complex, which leads us to Tip #2.
Tip #2: What’s the story?
I’ve found the energies that keep entrepreneurs stuck in their business are a lot more like a story. There’s a plot, there are characters, dangers and consequences.
And it tends to play out repeatedly.
Become more aware of your business and yourself in it from an outsiders perspective and you will gain far more insight into what’s really going on at a deeper level in your business.
The story of what’s happening in your business has likely been playing out your whole life (or even for lifetimes). If you can recognize the story you’re one step closer to being free of the old story and able to create a new, more abundant and successful one.
This detective work can be fun, but it can also take a lot of time. Being a Capricorn, I like efficiency and I’m sure you would rather have your business thriving in a shorter time, so this brings us to Tip #3.
Tip #3: Your intuition knows
If you’re like the clients I’ve coached over the years you likely feel sort of powerless and frustrated when it comes to getting your business going. It feels bigger than you and at times maybe you wonder if you’ll ever be able to get it going.
But let me tell you something important. You are WAY more powerful than you realize. You are fully capable of succeeding in your business and attracting all that you need in order to help you do just that.
In fact, you actually have the ability to pinpoint EXACTLY what is keeping you stuck in your business. It’s a skill you can cultivate.
That’s exactly what my clients do. I help them at first by using my intuition to pinpoint exactly what’s keeping them stuck. And then they go on to do this for themselves and are often amazed at how simple this can be and that they can actually do it for themselves.
It doesn’t have to be a mystery. Your intuition knows the way. If you really want to accelerate the growth of your business then you want to use your intuition as a shortcut.
Tired of trying to figure out what’s holding you back in your business? Of thinking you’ve got it and watching as nothing changes in your business and no more money comes in?
I’d love to help you out with that. How would you like to have me tune in intuitively to pinpoint the biggest energetic blocks within you that are playing out in your business? So you’re no longer guessing and wondering, you know EXACTLY why you are stuck.
Right now I’ve opened up a limited number of spaces for complimentary Intuitive Business Assessments that will help you do just that. I will help identify what’s keeping you stuck and unable to grow your business at both a practical level and at the deepest level energetically.
You’ll leave the call feeling clear and inspired, feeling relieved that it’s no longer a mystery anymore.
But there are a limited number of spaces available and you have to apply to be considered.
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May 10, 2011 4 Comments
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April 5, 2011 2 Comments
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March 29, 2011 No Comments
Are you often disappointed with the number of sign ups into your programs or classes? Do you think there could be something IN you that is sabotaging your success without you knowing? So much of what is happening in your business as a spiritual entrepreneur is impacted by what is happening below the surface. Let’s explore how you may be pushing away business from you.
As I watch my Platinum Clients begin to step into new territory by promoting the new clear and passionate expression into their work, I notice a few things that seem to happen that tell me something deeper is going on to sabotage them. I quickly help to steer them out of it because I know what’s at stake, potentially thousands of dollars could be lost if they don’t get out of the sabotage they don’t even realize is happening.
Let’s see if you have any of the 3 signs that show you may be secretly pushing away potential clients and sales:
1. You watch the evidence to tell you if you are on track or not
This is one of the biggest mistakes you can make as a spiritual entrepreneur. Your results ARE a reflection of your energy, consciousness and business skills BUT watching the results can be a mistake depending on how you do this.
I see a lot of people who start promoting something new, after putting it out there they begin to look at the evidence, the results. Looking at the results is not a bad thing, it can spark a fire under you to find new ways to get your work out to more people if the first attempt wasn’t successful. It becomes a problem when you look at the results after just putting it out there and interpret the lack of immediate results as a sign of failure or that you are not supposed to be doing what you were trying to do.
This is not being a creator, this is being passive and fearful. As a spiritual entrepreneur it is your job to TRUST the inspiration you are given and to do all you can to bring it into expression and get it out to those who need it.
I’ve found your immediate results can sometimes test your faith and if you continue to believe and to keep putting your work out there you could potentially make thousands of dollars from something you got fearful about and backed off.Â In the last 6 months, I know I would have probably lost out on over $30,000 in income had I got stopped by this tricky form of sabotage.
Keep going! Even if you do fail it is not really ever failure because what you learn from failing will help you the next time around.
2. You allow your energy to drop when it counts
I had a Platinum Client going through her first launch of her new brand new coaching program. She did a mail out and had potential clients connecting with her. During this week SO much came up within her and all around her to throw her off. This is a form of sabotage disguised as emotional challenges, doubt, fear and everyday life getting in your way. The challenge is to CONTINUE keeping your energy high, no matter what.
If your energy drops as you put the message out about a new program or product, this is a big sign you may be secretly sabotaging yourself. Not keeping your energy up, your belief and expectations up could lead you to energetically not allowing the FULL success and results that were actually meant for you. Had she let her energy be knocked down she would have missed out on signing on her first high paying client.
3. When some success really does start to happen you feel uncomfortable and energetically back down
This is a very common one and a big indicator there is deeper conflicting energies within you that don’t want you to succeed. I’ve seen this repeatedly in my business when I had my highest sales months. In the past, my highest sales months were often followed by my lowest, that’s a common way this sign shows up.
It all starts with you being excited and celebrating your success. You then you begin to feel a slight discomfort and have no idea why and this is often followed by feeling totally disconnected from your passion, unable to get motivated and to even feel connected to your work. This is SO damaging because it literally prevents you from keeping your energy up and from putting your work out there AND stops those who are meant to be helped by you from being able to get your help.
This is a very secretive dynamic because you often have no idea what’s happening. Yet it could be the very thing that is preventing you from growing your business to your next level. It all starts with awareness! Bringing these signs into your consciousness allows you to be more aware so you can open to a new way next time.
Could you be missing out on potentially thousands of dollars of in.come without even realizing?
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March 8, 2011 No Comments
During difficult financial times it is easy to get caught up in feelings of powerlessness. During these times it is also easy to begin seeing your clients or something external as the source of your income in your business. But this view on the financial power being outside of you is the last thing you want and actually holds you in financial lack and prevents abundance from coming into your business.
So what happens when you see your clients, your partner, your savings, your retirement or some other external source as your financial source?
You actually repel money and clients away from you in your business. When you see your power as outside of yourself you do not own the incredible power you do have to create exactly what you want.
Seeing your clients, partner or anything else external as your source also leaves you feeling needy and dependent on others. And your potential clients can feel it. And while support is a great thing, signing on clients is a great thing, handing over your financial power is not.
At one time I saw my partner as my financial source and security. I didn’t realize it at the time but this was actually preventing me from being able to be my own financial source and had prevented my business from taking off. As soon as I had left that relationship I in essence stepped into my power and owned my role as the creator of my financial reality. Within 5 months I had more than tripled my business.
Why is that?
Because seeing something outside of yourself as the source of your abundance means you are not in your power in your business. And it is simply not the truth. More importantly:
If you are going to create a successful business doing what you love then you must be in your power and own your power as the creator of your financial reality. There is no other way.
So let’s get you started in reclaiming your power over your financial reality with 3 shifts in perspective:
1. The Universe is your source, YOU are your source, your connection to the Universe is your source
When you look at potential clients as your source of income it immediately brings you into the energy of attachment. And with attachment comes a needy feeling that they can pick up on (yuck!). It also narrows your focus to a specific person and a specific outcome, which in essence is a restriction of your energy. And restriction of your energy is the last thing you want!
This restriction can manifest in so many ways including loss of connection to your passion and the reason why you are doing this work in the first place, disconnection from your higher self as you are so focused on the external and a restriction of income.
In order to open up this restriction you need to acknowledge the true source of your abundance, which is You, the Universe, God or whatever you choose to call this higher power. You are the creator of your reality whether you do this unconsciously or intentionally. You know this, but it is time to reaffirm it if you are feeling as though something external is your source.
The money and clients you attract are both created from within you. Take back your creative power by reaffirming this. Remember that you can work at the level of cause, your clients and the income you have are the effect of YOU. The Universe brings to you what you are ready for, what you believe in and what you take action to help create.
2. I choose to let go of my powerlessness
Seeing others as the source of your abundance shows on some level your belief in your powerlessness. As much as I’m sure you hate the thought of being a victim, allowing yourself to feel powerless sets you up to be a victim.
As a spiritually conscious person there are many deeply buried energetic blocks that are likely in the way of you fully stepping into your power. And because being in your power is so important healing these deeper issues and being able to feel safe stepping into your power is one of the steps in the Fearless Faith System.
But you can start now with a simple choice. Choose right now in this moment to let go of the idea that you are powerless and ask to be guided to how you can step into your power, how you can be the financial power in your business.
3. Bring your focus to within
Seeing an external thing as your financial source is in essence looking outside of yourself for what you need. On a deeper level you know it is impossible to get something from outside of you that you do not already match inside.
If you find you are looking outside yourself, stop and begin to look within. Notice how you feel, acknowledge how you feel and choose to do what you can to feel better. Remind yourself that you create based on what is going on inside of you and for a moment choose to bring your focus to what you really want. Envision what you would love to create and bring in the feelings of having what you want here now.
It all comes down to YOU and though this thought can be scary might as well just face that fear right away rather than have it under the surface keeping you powerless. You CAN create abundance in your business. It is part of the higher purpose of your business. Remember that, own that and act as though it were true and you will be surprised what can open up in your reality.
November 17, 2010 No Comments
Do you try so hard to take your business to the place you KNOW it is meant to be yet the results you seek don’t happen? Maybe you’ve barely made anything in your business or perhaps have got it to hundreds of dollars a month when you know it should be making thousands.
Maybe on some level you feel you know you are blocked but you can’t seem to figure out why. Perhaps it’s time to look a little deeper.
As a spiritually conscious entrepreneur you don’t just have to deal with normal issues like motivating yourself, learning to market and manage your time.
No. You have deeper issues to face and work through. In fact, I believe one of the biggest ways to accelerate your spiritual growth is to start a business doing what you love.
Creating a successful business doing what you love is the fastest way to dig up all of the major issues you have and to force you to deal with them one by one. And until you do, your business will not produce the impact or income it is meant to.
Today I want to share with you one of the BIGGEST blocks I see spiritually conscious entrepreneurs have that is SO extreme and hidden that it can be holding you back in your business without you having a clue. Literally has you repelling the sales and income you are MEANT to have, all without you realizing.
I have been doing intuitive healing work in my business for a number of years now and part of this work involves uncovering the deeper source of the energy blocks within you that are playing out in your life and business.
What I have seen holds spiritually conscious entrepreneurs back the most is that they have SO many deeper issues around being in their power. Power is a loaded word for spiritually conscious people, I’ve seen it over and over.
But the thing is, you MUST be in your power to succeed in your business.
There’s no way around it. I believe you are meant to be in your power and not only that, that you WANT to be in your power. Being in your power is a great place to be. Your life works when you are in your power, you are inspired, synchronicity happens, you are fully being who you are meant to be when you are in your power.
Your clients can find you when you are in your power because you are a lighthouse with your light ON when you are in your power.
So what is the #1 biggest secret block to being in your power?
Fear of loss of love.
Seem strange? It used to for me too. Though I can remember every time my business appeared to be growing at a fast rate I would have this fear come up in me that somehow if I was successful I would lose the love in my life.
That’s how these secret blocks work. They don’t make sense logically. It’s not logical that you hold yourself back from succeeding in your business.
But the deeper truth, the truth the cells in your body remember is that in the past, past lives, there were serious consequences to you being in your power. One of the biggest and most common is that when you were in your power you lost love.
Now this could have happened in many dramatic ways I’m not going to go into here, but I want you to know that if you are not able to succeed in your business, if you put in so much and it still barely moves forward it is time to look deeper.
Spiritually conscious people feel like they should be able to figure it all out themselves. That they should be able to succeed and they should be able to do this without help.
But I know what you are working against. Yourself. And until you uncover what these deeper issues are and resolve them, until you are finally grounded in your power in your business and in your life, it will just be a struggle.
I know because I was there. And now I am more fully in my power than ever and I know what it took to get here in a way that felt safe.
Start your journey into your power right now. Commit now to being in your power and ask for guidance to help you get there. Claim the fullness of the purpose you are here for.
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November 2, 2010 No Comments
Are you struggling on the path of building a successful business, but it seems like it’s a never ending journey? Trying so many things yet not getting the results you want? You may be surprised to know that there may be a surprising person unknowingly holding you back.
I received guidance once saying those I am here to work with are way more powerful than they realize. They are so powerful yet they hide from this power. Rather than be powerful they play small, hide out and try not to stand out.
I know what that’s like, I did this most of my life. But being in business not just for a hobby but to actually succeed in business meant one step at a time dropping my need to play small and safe.
Actually succeeding being in business and not just spending endless hours, days and years in it with little or no financial return requires you to step into your power. I believe it’s a requirement.
Looking back on my business I can literally see the direct connection between how much I was in my power and how much I was making in my business.
But there is a problem. I can remember countless times just mentioning the word power to my clients and getting this strange reaction. Whether you’re aware of it or not, power feels dangerous to spiritually conscious people.
And this is one of your biggest blocks on your path to growing your business into that full and amazing vision you have for it.
You can’t just choose to be in your power and then be in your power the next minute. It’s not a logical decision. There are far too many deeper dynamics at play that will not allow you to be in your power.
And it is a journey. You can’t just be in your power in your business and when your partner is around you shrink down or hand your power over to him. That’s not power. And that will prevent your business from growing.
There is a way to be in your power lovingly. There is a way to evolve your relationships so you can be in your power and it be a good thing. And you can get started today.
Being in your power is SO important; your ability to make the income you actually want literally depends on it. That’s why in the Fearless Faith System we focus specifically on uncovering and healing the deeper dynamics that make being in your power feel dangerous.
You ARE powerful beyond anything you can imagine.
The challenges you have right now that keep you up at night are only huge challenges because you don’t have access to all of You to deal with them. They are actually minor and insignificant. When you are in your power you find the way, ask for support and are able to attract a whole new reality because of your energy state.
The journey to your power begins with one step, a choice to step into your power. It can be as simple as:
I realize I am meant to step into my power and though it scares me I trust that there is a way to do this that is safe and feels good. I ask for support and guidance to help me step into my power in all areas of my life with grace and ease. I choose to step up, to step into my power, to be the light I know I came here to be.
And if you would like to be supported in this journey, I invite you to join along with other spiritually conscious entrepreneurs as I guide you through healing the 4 specific dynamics that are in the way of you being in your power. So you can feel safe stepping into your power. So you are no longer wasting time, potentially years struggling. So you can actually move forward. To embrace new dynamics and patterns in your business and relationships so you can finally take your business to its next level and attract the support to do this.
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October 27, 2010 No Comments
I remember back when I started my business that it was not exactly the ideal time in a logical sense. I had just moved into a brand new house that I had built and I had just been laid off of my Engineering job.
To those around me I must have seemed crazy, but what I knew was that I was being guided, that it WAS time I start my business. There were signs and even when I just looked at the Engineering job postings everything in me said NO!!!
That first year was hard. Trying so much to build my business but by the end of that year I had to admit that I needed another source of income and sadly returned to my Engineering career.
I felt like a failure. I knew so much about the Law of Attraction and manifesting, why couldn’t I succeed?
My business grew over the next couple of years but still was not anywhere near able to support me financially. I was SO frustrated! What was I doing wrong?!
Can you relate?
I was trying SO hard, doing all I could, not realizing that my not-so-supportive relationship was secretly holding back major sales growth in my business.
Now I do not blame anyone for anything, my life is my creation as is yours. But what I know now is this:
Your relationship is a mirror of you.
And if you do not feel supported in your relationship, it says something very important about YOU. It says that you are on your own. You are independent, maybe even a fighter. And most importantly, it says that you CAN’T or DON’T allow support.
So what? Isn’t it good to be so independent? A make it happen kind of woman?
In a word, no. It is not a good thing for one VERY important reason that you need to get if you are ever going to take your business to the place where it supports you financially…
You can’t create a successful business alone. And you’re not meant to.
You will need to learn from those ahead of you on the path. And even if you could learn it all on your own, it would not be possible for you to find the exact right information because you are closed off to the most important thing on this path.
The support of the Universe.
If you are going at it alone, if you are fighting to build your business your energy says one thing: I don’t need support.
And that is just not true.
Maybe that’s hard to hear but I know without a doubt that I did not create my success alone. I believed when there was no evidence saying I should. I trusted in the Universe to guide the way. I trusted that there was a way.
BUT my business did not change until the dynamics in my relationship changed. That relationship was not capable of being supportive, it was not for my highest good and I can see that looking back that I had to leave it to get here. And it wasn’t until I let go of what was unsupportive that I was finally able to allow the support of my business growing.
Immediately I attracted an incredible program and mentor, the exact support I needed to create a MAJOR increase in my sales, within just a few months. And to end up with a 322% increase in sales over the previous year.
This whole go it alone thing is so common among spiritually conscious entrepreneurs, particularly women and it has got to go.
The Universe has SO much love for you. It not only WANTS you to succeed but has the way for you to do that.
And it is WAY too difficult for you to be in a relationship that is unsupportive and succeed. It is too present in your life and energy. There are a number of reasons why and you can begin today to turn it around.
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October 7, 2010 4 Comments